How to Be A Mother of Twins?

" There's two to dry; There's two to wash, There's two who argue, There's two who cry. One's in the mud, Having a ball; The other holds a crayon...Another marked wall. Some days seem endless, My patience grows thin. Why did God choose me to be a mother of twins? The answer comes clear- At the end of the day, As I tuck them in bed And to myself I say...There's two to kiss, There's two to hug; And best of all Thank You, God, for two to love. "

Being a mother of a twins is a challenging role for me. It is not twice the work than having a baby but rather four times. I was once a childish person. But since I gave birth to my twins, it changed me a lot. I'm not a perfect mother, 'coz i still don't know how.. In everything I do, I just follow my heart. ..

I love them more than anything, without loving them, I know it means nothing whatever i do in my life. I'm not a child anymore to play, but since it's their interest, i take an interest on it. I always find time to play with them.Spending quality time with them is the most important, to let them feel how they are love. It is not easy for me to keep cool and try to stay patient 'coz i'm not that type of person. On my situation, I have to be. There are times I lost my temper, but at the end, there's a guilt feeling inside, and that was so hard. I'll make sure that I'm approachable mother to talk to. I try to be understanding and a good listener. an because they're a twin, I always want to be fair, because i don't want them to feel that I have a favorite between them. I love them unconditionally; when they grow up I don't want to force them to be who I think they should be in order to earn my love.